our story!

My fiancee and I have a wonderful story to tell! We met in June, 2006. we were both married and had kids. I, married my “high school sweetheart” right out of school, and was married for 16 years. I have a daughter, now 14 and son 11. I lived in Kansas. Pam, my fiancee, lived in RI, had been married for 10 years and has a little girl who is now 9. We had similar stories, being married with children and stable lives. also similar childhoods. We had both been questioning our sexuality, and were sort of “lost”. We turned to a website called “melsweb” in hopes to read some stories to maybe help us out. We found each other there. She commented on a story I had written and I wrote her back. the chemistry was INSANE. Something we had never felt before. I was separated from my husband and she was not far behind me. We grew close VERY fast, and it was like something was just pulling us together. We met for the first time, about 3 months after we started writing to each other. We fell in love after the first visit. We had a lot to figure out, with kids involved, etc. We were destined to be together…things just fell into place so easily it was scary. It is 4 years later and we fall deeper in love every day. We feel so fortunate to have our lives together, and have happy, healthy kids and support from our families! Life is good!