Hey Tracy & Stamie!!! :)

Tracy & Stamie,
Hello! Greetings from NYC! How are you ladies!? My name is Jessica and I’m 23. Let me first start off by saying THANK YOU! Watching the Real L word every Sunday night was incredible. You both, as well as the rest of the ladies on the show esp. (Nikki & Jill) have influenced my life so much. The show has made me believe that I too can have a wedding and have children even though I am a lesbian. The typical American dream is to marry your prince and live in a nice big house with a white picket fence; children and a dog and I’ve always wanted that except I’ve always been attracted to woman.
When I entered high school I was a huge jock. Played Varsity basketball, softball, lacrosse & soccer, I was surrounded by lesbians. I met one girl Jen who became my best friend instantly, I knew I liked her but I could never tell her that, she seemed so straight. I still didn’t want to believe I was gay my freshman year so I continued to make fun of lesbians and hook up with guys, I guess I was in denial about it. It was my sophomore year that I had a basketball game and Jen went to give me a hug and say good luck before my game and out of nowhere kissed me on the lips! Total SHOCKER! I didn’t know what to do; I had butterflies going thru my stomach all game. I couldn’t wait for the game to be over just so I can talk to her about what just happened. After the game, I spoke to her via text messages because I was shy and still young to talk about it face to face. We both agreed that we liked it and it didn’t skeeve us out or anything. Sophomore year of high school we started to date. We hid it from family and friends for about 3 years. It was definitely hard but I was still embarrassed about being a lesbian. Junior and Senior year prom we went with our guy best friends and would ditch them at the after party part. But no one knew we were dating. We’re both pretty girly, Jen for sure. It wasn’t until I graduated H.S and entered College that I became comfortable with who I loved. I started to love the lesbian world.
7 years later, we are still together. We went away to college. For the parent’s acceptance part, my parents accepted it 100% they are crazy about Jen, they adore her. My family wants me to have a wedding with Jen! I made them watch the real L word just so they can see Jill and Nikk. They absolutely adored your children Stamie. As for Jens parents, her dad and 2 brothers accepted it 100% but her mother reacted the same way your mom did Tracy. Being that Jen is her mother’s only daughter, I understand a little bit, only a LITTLE bit. Haha But I can still give her anything a man could. After maybe 5 years of dating her mother finally got over it. I mean I know she loves me, but at times def wishes I was a guy. I’m introduced as Jens friend not Jens girl friend. I believe if Jen and I thought of a wedding or if I ever thought of proposing her Mom would not accept it. It bothers me a lot, as well as Jenn because we’re family oriented. Were 23 now, I’m graduating soon as a Nurse Practitioner, and Jens a teacher. We both come from very supportive and wealthy families which have put us on the right track, but I just feel after 7 years Jen would not end up with me in the long run because she’d want to please her mother being with a man. We’ve spoke about it plenty of times and Jens ready to settle down but I would never want to destroy the relationship between her and her mother. I know people usually say give her time, she’ll come around.. but It’s been 7 years how much time do people need? We’re still the same damn person we just happen to be two woman in love. We TOTALLY didn’t plan this, we just had this connection. A connection I wouldn’t change for the world. I just wish her mom would be as accepting as my mother was.
But ok enough with my long story. Sorry to bore you! Haha. I’m planning to make my get away to LA in January! I am dying to see you Stamie @ your Comedy show! Anyway I’d be able to get into the show!? Hope you ladies are GREAT! You both, Jill and Nikk are my absolute favorite on the show. I wish they’d have a season 2 already! But I truly wish nothing but the best for you ladies. You both are beautiful couple. Stamie when I watch some of the clips on you tube, I legit cannot stop laughing at the things that come out of your mouth.
Take care,
Jess xo
P.s hope you guys write me back 🙂