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Help, please? Love you.

Hi, I’m Erin and I’m 18 years old. Lately I’ve been having thoughts about whether or not I’m gay, and I’m definitely leaning toward the gay side. So my question is, how did you know you were gay? What was the deciding factor? I’m pretty sure I am I just don’t know, it’s all really overwhelming and confusing. Could you help me out please? You really inspire me to be comfortable in my own skin. <3

2 Responses to “Help, please? Love you.”

  1. guest says:

    Hi. Throughout my high school years I thought I might be gay, but didn't think I should be or that it was the right thing to do. I had several boyfriends, had sex-hated it, thought that's the way it was supposed to feel. Until I met my gf one day, it was love at first sight. I had boyfriend at time, I cheated on him w her, found out first time i was intimate w her, that I was sooo comfortable and LOVED being w a woman. I broke up w my boyfriend and it's been women ever since. She and I were together for 5 yrs, split up for another 5, got back together, going on another 5 yrs together and cant see myself w out her in my life. she is my soulmate. So long story that for me, I knew as soon as I was in bed w a woman. This is who I am, its just so natural, and perfect.

  2. nicki weide says:

    Hi! I guess every woman has her own way of figuring out her sexuality. For me, I always had boyfriends and really wasnt ever attracted to women, i got married had kids, etc. When I was 35 i met a woman who I was VERY sexually attracted to and couldn't figure out WHY! for a couple of years I really struggled with my feelings. I turned to a website, and talked with several women who had the similar story. I ended up divorcing my husband and was with a few women before I realized I was DEFINITELY gay. When I realized is was when i was intimate with a woman after only being with men. It felt SO right and natural and I had never been so comfrtable before. I met the woman of my dreams online, and we have been together 4 years now. It took some time to come together since we were married and had kids, but we have a happy ending and we are all happy and good. You are young….date and figure yourself out!
    I think your heart tells you…..listen to it!!!!

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